We will never be perfect, but we can be better! We all have bias. Whether it be racial, the way we raise our kids, what we think is morally correct and in pretty much every facet of life. This bias we have is shaped by our own experiences, the way we were raised, lessons we have learned, the education we were given, religions and the things we have been exposed to. The older I get, the more I realise how bias all my own opinions and views are. I see everything through my own lens. I am often ashamed of things I have said in the past, and judgements I have made due to my own bias. Often I see words leave my mouth, and I wish I could catch them and shove them back in. The more life throws at us, the more we begin to understand and experience how other parts of life , the challenges and pain feel and impact us. It begins to change us and make us better people, because we have been able to experience things from a whole new perspective, a lived perspective. One other thing that can c
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KANDIDLY KYLIE
LIFE IS FINALLY MAKING SENSE Part 1- Growing up, I think we can all remember that one kid, usually a boy who clearly had ADD in our class. They were usually nice kids, class clowns, and the teacher was constantly at them for swinging on their chair, blurting out things , argumentative, and not paying attention. They would lose their temper and fly off the handle when someone pushed their buttons. We all knew they couldn’t have red drinks or they would go crazy, but for some reason they couldn’t help themselves and would always be drinking red drinks, buying red frogs and all the sugary things they craved from the tuckshop haha. As a kid, that was as much as I really knew about ADHD, I was just thankful it wasn’t me. It wasn’t until just over 4 years ago, when it was suggested by my husbands Clinical Psycologist that she was suspicious many of the problems he was having in life, were due to him possibly having ADHD. It was a bit unexpected, and honestly, it took many more months of he